Hello friends, and welcome back to another Frugal Living Friday here at ASW Homestead!
It’s that time of year again—emails, ads, and banners promising “can’t miss” deals and once-a-year savings. Black Friday shopping can feel exciting, but it can also pull us away from what truly matters if we’re not careful.
I’ve been there—grabbing extra items just because they were marked down, only to realize later that I didn’t really need them. Over time, I’ve learned that being frugal doesn’t mean avoiding the sales altogether; it means being intentional about how and why we spend.
Before you grab your wallet, take a moment to pause, pray, and plan. You might just find that the best deals are the ones that align with your family’s goals, not with the loudest advertisement.
Make a list of what you truly need before you ever head out—or log on. A few thoughtful minutes of planning can protect your budget and your peace.
Ask yourself:
Would I buy this if it wasn’t on sale?
Does it replace something I already own?
Does it serve my family’s real needs or just my “wants”?
Being intentional keeps your heart content and your wallet steady.
Black Friday deals are designed to make you feel like you’re saving money, even when you’re spending more. Set a clear limit before you begin and stick to it.
On the homestead, we’ve used the “cash envelope” system during the holidays. It’s simple: once the envelope is empty, we’re done. No credit cards, no overspending, just peace of mind.
Frugal living isn’t about buying the cheapest thing—it’s about buying what lasts. A well-made tool, coat, or kitchen item that you’ll use for years is a better deal than five trendy gadgets that break by spring.
Focus on stewardship—choosing purchases that serve your family long-term rather than filling a short-term want.
One of my favorite Black Friday traditions is turning the focus outward. Instead of chasing deals, we sometimes use that day to clean out closets, donate gently used clothes or toys, or set aside a small amount for a charity or local food drive.
It’s a beautiful reminder that generosity and gratitude outlast every sale.
There’s nothing wrong with enjoying a few good deals, but Black Friday should never steal our joy or our focus. At its best, frugal living isn’t about restriction—it’s about freedom. Freedom from debt, from clutter, and from the pressure to keep up with everyone else.
As you navigate the shopping season, remember: wisdom and contentment are the best bargains of all. If this post encouraged you, I’d love for you to:
Share it with a friend who’s trying to keep their spending simple this holiday season.
Or take a quiet moment this weekend to write down three things you’re thankful for—because gratitude always outshines any sale.
“Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have.” – Hebrews 13:5
Around here, we’re learning as we go—one season, one project, and one lesson at a time. I’m glad you’re along for the journey.
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